Wednesday, June 8, 2011

decisions in life !


"what if I make the wrong decision?"

this a question whereby almost everyone even myself .

I believe that our decisions is always based on our conviction , our believe system !
our decision always follow our believe system .

lets take an example, " if you believe that facebook is important , more likely you will decide to spend more time facebooking right? "

well, Wilson... that is different !
how can you relate facebook with my current situation ?
well, im actually talking to myself here ..

what course should I study?
who is the right one for me ?
what if....
what if .......

all these thoughts have been resolving in me for quite sometime .
then I begin to reflect back.. all these while I have been making decision based on what?
then I begin to realise that I make my decision based on the foundations of my life .
on what is important to me .
in other words , my believe system!

"while conviction rest in the heart, decision rest in the head"

so step 1: search your heart before making a decision!

but that is not the end!

well, the thing about life is that our lives now is a summation of the decisions we make in the past.
Similarly, our future is going to be the summation of the decisions we make now .

sounds scary eh ?

but in making decisions, you need to be prepared to face the storms ahead , the wave that is going to hit you.

there is always a price to pay for every success at the end of the day weather we realize it or not.

"no pain , no gain "

when you make a decision today, be prepared to face the pain , be prepared to pay the price .

then It will be worth the decision

step 2: you need to be confident and prepared for mistakes to come when you make a decision

when you make a decision

think how you are going to work towards instead of thinking why you made that decision !

and work towards that decision

step 3: a decision is a commitment.